深度好文｜Small Talk最强攻略来了，轻松解决你脚趾抠地的漫长三分钟！

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1⃣️保持对他人的好奇心，开启合适的话题：Small Talk的关键就是让对方有话可聊，而大家都喜欢讲自己事情，所以如果你能通过不断发问展现出对对方讲的事的兴趣，那么这个Samll Talk就不怕进行不下去。你可以选择一些轻松愉快的话题，比如天气、娱乐、旅游等。当然，你也可以尝试选择一些与工作相关的话题，比如公司文化、行业动态等。

• 在Party上你可以问:"Hi, I see you're enjoying the music, do you have a favorite genre?"

• 在面试时你可以问:"Could you tell me more about the company culture here?"

• 在会议后你可以问:"Wow, how do you see it impacting our department's goals?"

• 在学校和老师/同学交谈你可以问:"What did you think about the last assignment? I found [specific aspect] challenging."

• 与陌生人交流时你可以问:"Hi！I noticed you're reading an interesting book. What's it about?"

2⃣️找共同兴趣共同点：Small Talk当然不能只是倾听，必须一来一往的聊，所以找到你们之间的共同点与共同兴趣，并以此作为桥梁，就可以迅速拉近彼此的距离，轻松展开对话，例如：找到兴趣爱好、工作背景或是生活经历中的相似之处。

• 在Party上你可以说:"I heard you've been to the Amazon Rainforest? I've been there too, it's truly spectacular!"

• 在面试时你可以说:"I see there are many potted plants on the desks in the company. I also enjoy keeping some green plants."

• 在会议时你可以说:"I heard you were working on…, I've done something similar before, so if you need any help, feel free to let me know."

• 在学校和老师/同学交谈你可以说:"Do you find this assignment question a bit challenging? I feel the same way."

• 与陌生人交流时你可以说:"I see you're wearing a concert T-shirt, are you a music fan? I'm really into live music too. Who's your favorite band?"

3⃣️学会“赞美大法”：要是你不知道怎么跟不熟悉的同事聊上天，那就使出杀手锏——赞美！没有不喜欢被赞美的人！你可以从她的衣服、配饰入手，这样一来你们就能愉快地聊下去了。不过需要记住的是赞美要真诚，不要假惺惺的，不然效果会大打折扣！

• 在Party上你可以说:"Your earrings are really pretty. Where did you buy them?"

• 在面试前你可以说:"The atmosphere among the employees at the company feels really good. Working here must be very fulfilling and happy."

• 在会议后你可以说:"This time your presentation is done so creatively well, no wonder you're always being praised."

• 在学校和老师/同学交谈你可以说:"How did you create this project? It's amazing! Could you teach me?"

• 与陌生人交流时你可以说:"Excuse me, I just wanted to say your hat is really eye-catching. Where did you get it?"